Zamindar, 61

Hi there

I am a male.

I believe the ladies in here are just that – ladies first and the various labels that are used to describe them seem artificial to me. If you think you are a female and want to be accepted as a female, you have already become a female to me. But for the sake of expressing myself, shall use the phrase “lucky ladies” to describe the majority of ladies in here as opposed to genetic women ?

Why am I here (and other similar sites) ? – to offer support, be empathetic and be there for you if and when you want to talk to an understanding male. I know that a lot of men are confused due to the fact that their first contact with such lucky ladies as you is from ---- sites which distort reality. I have been there and rejected that.

Also I am interested in talking to ladies, make friends, hang out with them, explore if a relationship is possible and in general to find joy in being supportive.

So feel free to contact me if you wish to talk to a male.

About myself, I am a 47 year old Male and am located far away from most of you in this site. I am married, but my wife is OK with my being here (in such sites) in general, though she is not interested know the specific sites that I visit. I have a son too and my family is my first priority over everything. So I am not going to be a significant other in anyone’s lives here in real time, but rest assured you are not contributing to any family’s problem by talking to me as this has been discussed and sorted out between me and my wife.

Finally, I hope it does not matter that I am so far away. As somebody told me – “Don’t measure the distance, measure the love”.